Church Hurt Can Be Healed
This past Tuesday night after a church dinner a friend invited me to, I heard a sermon titled “Church Hurt.” The minister, using pseudonyms, shared real-life examples of individuals who were abused by clergy and congregation members. It reminded me of this quote from Brennan Manning: “The single greatest cause of atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.” On her website, a Christian therapist named Dr. Alison Cook listed these examples of church hurt: A single mom whose church promised to stand by her, then disappeared after she got a divorce from her abusive husband A kind-hearted woman who was told that she would “burn in hell” if she made friends with the “wrong” kind of people A young couple forced out of their church after they stood up to a narcissistic pastor A man who opened up about his struggles only to be told his...